Shifty stuff. All of it.
Earlier today I was finalizing a document to send off for
review. I wrote about life transitions, disputes, and their transformative
potential.
A few minutes ago I responded to a friend’s email about a crisis
through which the family is living day-to-day.
I looked up at the bookshelf that has my favorite artisan-crafted
kaleidoscope perched on the edge; maybe I was seeking a beauty-respite…
And I remembered the coolest scope I’ve ever seen:
huge. built into a flower planter. focused so that through the eyepiece
the pansies fracture off into diamonds of misshapen color. petals askew.
a
nature-lover’s,
kaleidoscope-collector’s,
handcrafts fanatic’s,
vivid-color enthusiast’s
ideal pairing!
Kaleidoscopic nature. Ever shifting under the finger-turned
wheel. Always new, fresh, bright. Transition or fragmentation at its easiest.
Most beautiful. Most pleasant. Expected.
Crises are not so easy to navigate. Nor are major life
transitions, conflicts.
But they can be crystalline in clarity and even full of beauty.
They are certainly a natural part of what it means to be on this earth. They
afford a different view of what we tend to experience ordinarily. They are not
to be feared, but revered: the transformative potency in the ruptures of our
lives are fodder for the juicy stuff of change, a chance to reflect rather than
the unthinking reflex.
(And in Japanese, the kanji for “crisis” is sometimes said – though
a bit erroneously - to be comprised of two characters: “Danger.” “Opportunity.”
I’ll take it! Only these 34 years after living on Honshu am I really beginning
to understand the crucial significance of this: the danger is in not taking the opportunity with which it’s
paired.)
If we can slow down in the transitions, even when they require
immediate triage, we will find the courage, strength, and natural response that
is in tune with the inevitable cycles of change. This is the beauty and peace at
the center of the shifty stuff.
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